How to ask a shy girl out on a date? Need tips please

iggloovortex · 2014-12-10T10:39:07+00:00

You just gotta go for it. With the shy ones direct is where its at. They'll be flustered by it but unless they're not interested they wouldnt say no. The worst you have to worry about is that she'll say no or be taken or see you as a friend. All very normal, not soul crushing things. What hurts about rejections is that we internalize them to mean we're not good enough or that we messed up somewhere, making us inferior. The key to overcoming that is to realize that you dont actually lose anything from a rejection. Life goes on as is, you keep doing whatever it was you were doing. At the end of the day its always worth a shot because you'll never know

jacks_not_surprised · 2014-12-10T05:26:15+00:00

You have never asked out a girl before and you'll try it with her first?!

I'd practice with some random girls(from the street) first and then come to her.

joshsway · 2014-12-10T18:02:21+00:00

You don't just "ask girls out". Is there any attraction at all? Attract her first, then how you ask won't matter.

Title	How to ask a shy girl out on a date? Need tips please
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Date	December 10, 2014 2:46 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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