i'm becoming more alpha than the alpha in my social group. what happens next?

SexySmexxy · 2014-12-14T19:30:34+00:00

"What happens when he reaches 100% alpha?

"I have no idea."

Well in the wild we have seen that a silverback gorilla can be expelled from his group should another Alpha male emerge in the group.

Scientists have also seen that an old King Lion in a pride can be kicked from group when another Lion contests his spot as supreme leader.

All jokes aside

Other than "becoming an alpha" because it sounds like you're 15 years old, I've been in your situation.

im good friends with one now and recently ive begun to realize that hes full of hot air and just talks a lot of shit. now im beginning to call him out on his shit and he doesnt appreciate it too much.

Most of my group just kinda hung out with him less when we realised he's in fact full of hot air and isn't really amounting to anything.

As for "what happens next" just live your life, there is no playbook, just be the best you that you can be and don't compete with others for the title of 'alpha'.

2014-12-14T16:04:44+00:00

If you've ever read 48 Laws of Power, there's a chapter about how you don't actively go after your leader. You simply just let them continue what they're doing and you quietly keep building rapport with the group as a leader.

When he seems to start losing control and faltering, at that point you take the proverbial alpha throne from him. Outright going after him makes you look manipulative and deceitful. It's a bit of a long term strategy but you'll notice people will gravitate more towards you and respect your leadership as the new alpha in the group.

Squand · 2014-12-14T20:59:14+00:00

Can you give an example of you calling him out? Of him talking hot air. Of him being defensive?

wise_robert · 2014-12-14T15:52:07+00:00

you either create a riff between you and this other fella, which can be dramatic

or the whole group will you reject you for acting like an asshole

Title	i'm becoming more alpha than the alpha in my social group. what happens next?
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Date	December 14, 2014 3:49 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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