I'm 19 and work at a gas station where I do 90% of my social activity considering we're forced to talk to girls all day there.
So my buddy/coworker decided that he would force me to try and get a girls number, he made me go up to the next person who isn't a cute girl and try to get their number. He made me try it with someone who isn't a cute girl because well, it's hard to take a hit your first time and if it's someone that you're not interested in then it doesn't hurt. So I tried it and found that I could make it a pretty funny experience. Each person I asked ended up laughing with me and thought it was funny.
It was honestly quite fun. We had a cute girl pull up and I do my normal routine. We have to say Hi, how are you ..etc and at the end ask for their member number. So I do all the Hi, how are you's and I pump her gas, didn't say anything to her and walk away for a bit. I come back and say "Ok, can I get your member number?" "Yeah, it's blah blah" then I dropped a "Ok, and can I get your phone number?" with a almost not very serious tone to it, just enough so it doesn't seem like I was asking as part of my job. She laughed and had this huge smile on her face, and she asked "Why what do you need that for?" I responded with "Ohh I don't know, I assumed we could hang out sometime. You could totally come to my house and play videos, and meet my pet turtle." she thought it was hilarious (and knew I was kidding, sarcasm is hard to express over Reddit) and gave me her name/number and then I told her I'd give her a call.
I lost the number that night after work :(
I tried again the following day, and turns out it I was pretty lucky that night. I tried on 3 cute girls and all told me they had boyfriends, I did however get one girl to add me on Facebook just to find out she has a boyfriend. I'm assuming it was because I wasn't as playful about it, I was in a more serious tone with each girl.
Things I learned
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- Don't take it so seriously, chill out. Be playful.
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- Nothing happens from being rejected
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- I know nothing about dating.
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- You can tell if a girl is interested before even talking to her. It's like a sixth sense.
Tips I'd love to here
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- Should I just kill it if they say they have a boyfriend? I've seen so many people catch girls lying because they decided to drag it on.
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- What's a good way to have a better success rate?
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- If I keep having girls say they have boyfriends, it's a bad sign right?
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