Alright, so I've got this sort of good friend that I met at the university, all of our friends are friends and it's just pretty friendly. I've been doing a lot of small moves lately: subtly touching, brushing, and teasing to raise the tension up, and she's kind of naturally flirty. Anyways, tonight we were playing cards (just us two in a room with a bunch of other people) and out of nowhere I told her I'd buy her ice cream if she beat me. I beat her, and she acted all upset and demanded a second chance, so I made it double or nothing and she ended up winning. She quickly requested it be tomorrow and we set a time. Here's the dilemma. I know a lot of you are just going to tell me to be confident and that she's obviously into me, but I'm seriously not sure. She's generally fairly flirty. I'm pretty sure she'd be okay getting ice cream with any of our other friends. I'm about an inch shorter than her, and she's seriously an 8 or a 9. I'm not saying she's out of my league, I'm just trying to figure out what I'm working with here. The question is, how do I get it from a casual friend thing to a more exclusive romantic thing besides just subtle touching. I could go out and just tell her I'm into her, but I'm not sure that would be the best way to find out if she's just interested in me. Do I just randomly go for a kiss on my friend during a movie sometime? Give it more time? Give me some advice seddit!