[FR] Had a fun night with a crazy girl, but need advice on closing.

SiXXEros · 2014-12-20T18:39:02+00:00

After the lip bite... "That's going on your tab." whatever her response is yours is... There's only one way to clear it. Cash, Visa, or full frontal nudity. I choose full frontal, thanks.

When she asks what you want... I want two things. I want to wake up tomorrow morning and repeat what I'm about to do tonight. Two, for you to finish your drink and get out of here with me because we have a tab to clear. Let's go.

Over the top women respond best to cooler than ice men who treat these women like whatever they do is just regular shit and not worth any extra special attention.

hipower805 · 2014-12-20T16:21:53+00:00

Throw a saddle on her. Basically be very aggressive with a girl like that.

c00kiecutter · 2014-12-20T21:50:54+00:00

From my experience, you can't be in control with crazy girls like them. Hell, you're almost never in control really. Enjoy the ride. You said you had fun, didn't you? Take the pressure off yourself, you don't need to sleep with everyone. And sex usually happens more often then not if you display your intentions and aren't needy about it.

Also, let me say, I'm kind of worried how you phrased the whole thing right here. It's like you feel making out is a commitment to having sex later if you do everything right. That's not how it works. You decide if you want to have sex with her, she decides if she wants to have sex with you. And if both want to have sex with each other, you have sex.

I'm not saying you can't improve in some way and increase your chances of girls wanting to have sex with you. But it's not a checklist thing: "refused to buy for a drink -- check", "made out -- check", why the hell is she not going home with me?!

Update: ah yeah, apart from general life advice, here's actual situation advice: Make her chase you. Turn the push/pull into you pulling away at least equally often as she is. Use the word "no". Display negative body language towards her. Play with it. Have fun with it :)

cereberus99 · 2014-12-20T19:19:04+00:00

Don't stick your dick in crazy. A night's worth of fun isn't worth a lifetime's worth of headaches.

royisabau5 · 2014-12-20T21:45:36+00:00

If this wasn't set in a bar, I swear the exact same thing happened to me and a friend. Violent make outs, hair color, no real closing, it was all the same. Good times...

2014-12-21T08:23:58+00:00

by running my finger from her neck down to her cleavage one other time.

I wouldn't have done this. Way too many people can see this. My favorite move is discreetly rubbing her pussy from behind while no one is behind us. Works pretty damn well actually.

She also asked me to buy her a drink a few times, which I refused to do.

Good job, but I hope you diffused it playfully

I told her she should take me home but she refused that.

Epic fail. You need to lead. You need to handle logistics. That's why YOU are the closer. That's why we call it PULLING.

Title	[FR] Had a fun night with a crazy girl, but need advice on closing.
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Date	December 20, 2014 4:13 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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