How do I get a girl to be a Friend with Benefits?

Ganadorf · 2014-12-21T07:47:24+00:00

how do i convince her

You have a bad perspective on this. You don't go from zero to FWB (usually). You need to 'get close' to a healthy amount of women. Don't date the ones you want to be FWB with 100%. I personally would never be FWB with an ex or with someone that I'd form a long-term relationship with. Your ex is your ex, move on, next!, etc.

Take the women you want out to social events; make yourself seem calm and relaxed (aka not begging for sex or female interaction). If everything goes well, escalate. After all is said and done go for light interaction with her (like 0-2 'non-essential' texts a week) and arrange more outings. You'll essentially be stringing her on a good ride while getting what you want.

This is all assuming you're average looking and dismissing you "good in bed". If you're attractive and/or good in bed, you don't really have to worry about arranging more outings or escalating. The girl looking to be FWB will hit you up since you're fun and good at sex. Just keep looking for more women to string along your awesome life.

SiXXEros · 2014-12-21T23:54:51+00:00

You don't convince anyone. You speak your intention to only be fwb and that you're comfortable with things staying casual. Assume they're seeing other men and ask that safe sex is practiced or its friends only.

If they're not down for that then you friend zone them and focus your sexual energies elsewhere.

2014-12-21T08:17:31+00:00

Remove the words "luck" and "convince" from your vocabulary. That'd be a great place to start.

Title	How do I get a girl to be a Friend with Benefits?
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Date	December 21, 2014 7:10 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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