I am somewhat new to Red Pill thought. I have lurked /r/theredpill for some time and read most of the sidebar information there. There are a few theory-related and personal questions I need answered. Throwaway account to avoid excessive judgement etc.

I ask these in the context of my current relationship and my upbringing. I just want to be happier.

1) Is chivalry inherently antithetical to red pill and vice versa? Where does one draw the line?

2) Is it possible to successfully do a 180 and begin implementing red pill ethos in an existing relationship? How about a marriage? Is it even possible to be Redpill and married? It seems like most people post from the perspective of young single men.

3) Can someone explain in detail (maybe a dictionary definition) of "shit tests" and maybe provide some common examples? I understand they describe "If she wins, you both lose" scenarios but that is a pretty generic description.

4) How do you implement Redpill if there is an obvious power imbalance between you and the woman? In other words, how can you be "dominant" over someone with more occupational prestige, income, intellect, than you? Surely we can't just avoid smart successful women.

Thoughtful responses are appreciated.