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[–]ThatSpecialPlace 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Kind of a dumb rule... Why not make your friend group bigger? It's okay to be social!
[–]RoadToTheBed 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'll admit. It IS a dumb rule but it's just something I've lived with for a really long time and I prefer to focus on the people I'm with rather than the people I can be with
[–]ThatSpecialPlace 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think that's how a lot of people are because it makes you feel "safe".
On the other hand, you can't just ditch your friends if you told them you'd spend time with them that night.
[–]RoadToTheBed 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I don't want to be that guy who goes after girls but leaves his friends. I'm enjoying learning to pick women up but it doesn't mean that I have to be constantly doing it whenever I see someone attractive
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You should feel like shit.
When in with my friends I'm more apt to approach. Not only am I in a more confident, fun mind space, but I also love showing people the beauty of pickup. Admittedly, I love impressing my friends too. It's just so fun lol. Bring people into your circle where you're having fun. You're way more likely to get laid that way and the process will be so much more fun. This is assuming your friends aren't idiots and cockblock you.
Yeah I get what you mean. I'm more confident with my friends as well. Don't get me wrong, I've approached when I'm with friends but I don't pickup just for social status amongst my friends and I prefer focusing the people I'm with. Say I'm with a girl and I see my friends, I'll just say hi but not be talking for them for too long. You get what I mean? Lol
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