help with approach and closing

RonnieLibra · 2015-01-01T04:02:05+00:00

Escalation is attractive. Use the below in THIS order.

First READ these 2 articles by 60 to get your head in the right place:

http://www.60yearsofchallenge.com/signs-a-girl-likes-you/ - Escalation is attractive.

http://librachronicles.wordpress.com/2014/10/21/risk-creepy-by-60yearsofchallenge/ - Risk Creepy

Then let's give you a mini course:

Cap Jack posted Strawberry fields recently. That you can use ANYTIME during the conversation to open the door to escalation. It's the 4 sexual framing videos on this page:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzZddM-iWzVQmVOX_2bWYDw

Also you can use these:

Constant Kino Parts 1 and 2:

http://librachronicles.wordpress.com/2013/02/21/constant-kino-and-a-short-cut-through-kino-escalation/

http://librachronicles.wordpress.com/2014/01/03/constant-kino-2-0-revisited/

and once you are in Constant kino/let's see if we fit you can bring in

Love Lust: (gets girls thinking about Love, Lust, and of course sex) Pua: What is love like to you?

HB: Something

Pua: Love to me is like when your with that special someone and they’re like your best friend, like your driving through a tunnel at 100mph * motioning with hands like driving through a tunnel *and everything around you is a blur except for that one person, like that one other person is the only one in your world that matters.

HB: something and agrees

Pua: Have you ever felt lust? Or have you ever just really liked messing around with someone you weren’t in love with? What was that like to you?

HB: something

Pua: To me it’s like when your body heats up and you get this knot in your stomach that’s driving you crazy, and only like, the naughtiest activities can relieve it, like you’d be willing to drive 45 minutes at 1 AM just to relieve that tension… just, to explode… woa, ok ok I know Lust is bad; but SEX is soooooo gooooood!

HB: laughs Yeah it is

(When you’re running this actually be in love and when you’re talking about Love and act it out, get hot and horny when you’re talking about Lust. Don’t go overboard with this, be calibrating by her answers and give her just a little more than she gives you, the point of this, to me, is to give sex the perception of being fun and healthy, which it is.)

Shorter version: get in convo about Love then get in convo about Lust and then “I know lust is bad; but sex is soooo gooood!”

Finally - until you get used to making out - you can use Kissing School by Swinggcat.

"If we were in kissing school and I was the teacher, what grade would I give you if we kissed?"

She will likely say A+ or something. Then you say, "Let's find out!" Then you go in for the kiss UNLESS she says NO. Don't freak out if she turns her cheek or whatever, laugh and bust on her lightly. "Ha you're so cute, you just made me feel like we're in 6th grade again on the playground.." And then SNIP and stack to something else for a while NON escalation - like it's NO BIG DEAL - if she is still there talking to you after the attempt she is interested and the attempted kiss is probably growing like a seed in her mind. If she likes you it will be easier later to do it!

But if she kisses you, then GOOD, keep the hand holding, constant kino going and mini-bounce "I'm hungry, I need to get my 18000 calories today before bed, let's go grab a bite to eat."

If you can get THIS far then at some point invite her back to "Check out a cool movie you haven't seen yet at your place" at least OR check out your talking goldfish or something. Make an excuse to have her come over. Even if it's like, "I have some exotic tea I like to chill with late night some times) (Go buy some from whole foods or something) - let's go have a little tea and chill"

Oh wait. You only want to get the kiss. OOPS! My bad. I took you past it. ;)

Actually the thing is, getting a kiss is only a small part of the seduction. I promise if you use this little mini guide you will have so much firepower that a kiss will become easy, and you'll be working more on the end game stuff like ASD, LMR, and Sex.. :)

Anyway I have a podcast I just posted about when to kiss her and how, but that's something I don't want to give you yet because it's for guys who already are getting a lot of makeouts. But look me up if you start getting a lot of makeouts and get stuck there (meaning kissing but not pulling).

Cheers!

RonnieLibra · 2015-01-01T04:15:32+00:00

Oh the approach too... That's another thing altogether. But lucky you I did just do a podcast about this recently.

Check it:

http://youtu.be/RWYwdRfatMk

PacoDamorte · 2015-01-02T11:57:04+00:00

The worst that can happen if you ask for a number or go for a kiss is a rejection.

Thick skin dude. After a while you won't even care about the rejection.

It sounds like you have some confidence issues. Why is that? Perhaps you need some self analysis to see what you are unhappy with and then work out how you can address that.

I have found fake it til you make it works quite nicely! :)

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