Confidence seems to be common theme in this subreddit.

Why? Because confidence gets you laid (duh).

How? Confidence leads to trust. If someone shows confidence (they sound like they have it figured out, or maybe they exhibit big balls), then you have gained their trust by being confident. The bridge to coitus is built by the trust of the other. Whether she or he is piss drunk gullible basic bitch or a rocket scientist surgeon, they are letting you have sex with them because they like you but more importantly they trust you. Once you gain trust you are in. When their is trust you may thrust, then bust from your lust as you cut the crust of your balls gaining dust, exceeding the rust, if you must, then go ahead and adjust to bust from the gust of the lust thrust of trust. coitus...t fuck

TLDR; Trust is the end goal and the point of being confident.

Trust = bangable.