Hey all, I was wondering if anyone could diagnose my problem.
Out bouncing around college parties last night and during it, at different times, I flirted with 3 specific girls that all seemed into me. But, every single one of them eventually peeled off and got with another guy shortly after talking to me.
Super tall, well dressed, confident posture, good looking except for skin (on the mend and is the best it's been, but still not great). I've always been a little awkward and have lately just been going "fuck it" and diving into convos, which unfortunately sometimes places me in interview mode. I tease a lot and get touchy though, and in all 3 situations the girls responded by touching back JUST A LITTLE BIT. I was just bummed because the only girls that seemed sexually into me lost interest when they talked to me. They didn't get bitchy or start giving 1 word answers or being disinterested AT me, just straight from hitting it off to gone. It was kinda frustrating because 2/3 were getting like super physical with other dudes just minutes after. One of them was even a girl who I thought was after me last week.
Besides these 3, most of my other rejections this evening WERE those bitchy, uninterested brush-offs, if it helps to know that.
I go to a small school and it seems like (based on what I've observed) most people play it safe and hook up with people they kinda know already. ALL of these girls are friends of my friends though, I don't think that's it.
Do I not escalate fast enough? Am I too awkward in conversation? Something else? Why do they give up on me?
Let me know if I'm being too vague.
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