Hello gentlemen, this girl who I have been friends with for like 6 years, started showing interest in me. But the problem is she has a boyfriend also she seems confused as fuck. One more thing is that we dated for a month about 3 years ago. And I lost this girl my virginity.

We didn't talk for 2 years after the breakup but now we just started being friends again. This girl literally has been in my bed right next to me, doing touchy things in the past couple of weeks. I just can't find the courage to do anything especially because of the bf. I also kinda have a rule against that, I dont touch other peoples merchandise.

I came to two conclusions. 1. Tell her how I feel about her but she has a boyfriend and i have rules. therefore, we won't be talking anymore. or 2. just stop all contact with her without saying anything.

I wanted to make her one of my plates, but I know If I don't make a move I'll end up in the friendzone again. So my options are pretty much binary.

What is TRP'S take on that

Thanks