New York City is HUGE. And it seems like every place is a hit or miss (well, there are a LOT of them). Common problems include

  • sausage fest
  • music is too loud, e.g. danceclub where there is no place to escape / isolate
  • everyone is sitting and all the seats are taken....

...and other common problems.

There has to be posts, resources, books or forums, dedicated to the best places you can go in NYC to pick up women. I'm aware that day game can happen any coffee shop / bookstore, but I'm looking for more of what the NYC nightlife has to offer.

I'm still a beginner and I haven't had a lot of other luck. Daygame is tough in NYC (not impossible but tough) for a beginner. Girls with level 100 tunnel vision, walking 23 MPH, needing to get to their next yoga class. Pubs suck because usually it's a small room with a small selection, no chance to really get a good rhythm /state going and talk to a lot of different woman.

I could probably have a decent chance at being really good if I have a chance to have a drink, wander around and build a good vibe within myself, see something I like (hopefully the music is present but not overpowering) and I start up a conversation. I'm definitely at a point in my journey where my confidence is there, my looks are there, my physique is there, my style is there. All I need is some good places to go to, to achieve some small victories and gain confidence that will undoubtedly snowball. But help me get it all started, and suggest some places to go, or suggest where I can find out at!

[As a last comment... to hopefully stunt any suggestions of it, please don't suggest any NyC lair, I'd rather not join. My experience with trying on multiple occasions before has been dealing with immature / capricious people, and I'd really rather go it alone initially.]