How do you keep things fresh? how often should you go on dates?
Been hanging out with this girl for a few months and all we do is fuck and I'm bored.. Frankly I'd like to do something other than that with her and I also want to keep things fresh. I feel like we've feel into a routine and it's boooring. She doesn't seem to care really and is ok with doing nothing.
I want to go out but problem is i'm a bit unsure of myself and feel scared of leading and making plans to unknown places, I feel beta about this. I guess I'm scared of leading and fucking up and looking beta or making lame plans or maybe getting lost and being embarrassed.
I'm slightly uncomfortable with being a leader. I'm also scared of being with her in social situations with others and me looking low value or getting embarrassed. I'm in a really boring area and anywhere cool is far and I've never been to, it also is going to cost me money and i'm a college student. I'm not sure what to do with her or where to take her I haven't been in many relationships.
What the hell do you do with a gf?
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