Background: I talked to this girl for about one hour in school, walking around. All we did was hug.
I call a girl at 10:00 pm and she says she's already over at her friends house, I tell her to sneak out. She says she already has done that, and that she'll feed bad. I tell her she won't feel bad and that we'll be back soon. She says that her friend's parents are still awake and that she'll have to wait in 2 hours to see. I tell her it's fine. She says it might be a no go, but can hangout the next day, or next weekend.
She even says "lets hang out next month, when I get my braces off then we can do whatever you want" Idk wtf that means. I kept pushing for the hang out for that day and she says that I'm acting sketchy and she asks if "I'm trying to have sex with her" I tell her "I haven't decided yet, but thanks for putting me on the spot." I tell her I just want to hang out with her and she says she wants to too but she's at her friends house, she says that if she was at her house she would say yes.
I call her at 12 and it gets forwarded. I text her to "call me?" and she doesn't reply. I text her again the next morning "hahaha I had a lot to drink. Shouldve at least said good night" She texts back "aw fk Im sorry I literally fell asleep texting you" I ask her what's she's doing later that day and she waits like 30 minutes to reply just to say she's hanging with a friend. I reply with "sounds fun." She asks me what I'm doing and I say "I'm with someone but we can hangout after if you want :)" She texts back "what's after" I text her "Ur vibe is different and I don't dig it." she texts "hahaha what?" I text her "Idk Ashley. Idk." she texts a second later "oh haha I'm sorry:(" I text her "I have some free time, are you up to hang" she texts back "I'm downtown."
Basically to wrap it up, I kept getting annoyed at the fact that she won't fully commit because she isn't quite sure what we would do if we were to hang out. After that night of me pushing for the hangout she seems to have put a shield up. She replies to all my texts and uses "hahaha" alot. I don't fucking know. I probably shouldn't have pushed for the hang out but I felt that the longer you wait the less she cares about you. But at the same time I think I over stepped persistence.
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