I had an interesting realisation the other day; the vast majority of successful pickups I've gotten (that weren't part of my sexual marathon in Korea), were instigated through some kind of technology. Nearly every instance of sexual escalation was done over text, Snapchat, etc. Weird, right?

The primary reason I found for this trend was a matter of persona. Over the internet, one has a lot more time to formulate responses to something that someone else says. That means that you can create a sort of persona for yourself, hide your weaknesses. It's the equivalent of taking a great selfie on Snapchat that hides your flaws.

When I meet people in person for the first time, I have a tendency to get overexcited. I get hyperactive, I talk fast, my voice range gets higher, I get a little weird, strange, even creepy to some. This has been a barrier to sexual success, which I have invariably fixed by initiating over text. When I inevitably meet the girl in real life, I always have time to settle myself into a mood (through music or whatever) that maintains the persona I created over text.

I have a choice here.

I can either improve on my strengths, making my text game as tight as possible and getting really good at pulling nudes. Or I can fix my personality, learn to calm down, and focus on fixing my weaknesses.

What do you guys think about my strategy?

Also, depending on the choice I make, what are some exercises I could do to improve that particular aspect of my game? All of your responses are appreciated.