Ending first date with kiss on the cheek?

2015-03-22T15:31:32+00:00

When you go on a first date, you should have it in your mind that you're planning to sleep with her afterwards. Unless, you're both really focusing on finding something more settled down and long term. If you're on that page, ease up a little bit. If you're only casually dating, which I assume you are, then your mentality is "I'm going to take her home.".

Remember you are the leader. When you both want to get closer, you need to be the one that makes it happen. She might not be giving you blatant green lights to escalate. But as long as there's a lack of a red light, escalate. She usually won't give you much to work with because, she wants to be lead. She wants the seduction to happen, but you need to do it. Any time she's still there and comfortable, she wants you to escalate.

Think "what would I do if she was my girlfriend?" so if you don't know how to greet her, greet her like you would a girlfriend, a confident hug and a kiss. Sit like you would with a girlfriend, pretty close, plenty of contact, arm around her maybe. Smack her ass like she's your girlfriend. Kiss her like she's your girlfriend, make out. Talk like you would a girlfriend, just to have fun, not trying to impress her anymore, you already have her. She's already yours, and the deal is sealed in your mind.

You might be hesitant about this more straight approach but trust me, it will be accepted. But only if you're comfortable. Her level of comfort will match yours. So keep your body language relaxed, slow down, breath deeply. If you're comfortable and relaxed with the intimate vibe, she will be too.

nor_iqhwan · 2015-03-22T17:48:13+00:00

Don't worry, most girls find it cute, honestly I do too. Next time on a first date with other girls, end it with a quick kiss on the lips and a hug, simple and romantic, plus its direct and shows that you would like to care for her and so on. But please, please put more sexual tension on the forthcoming date with the same girl.

balancespec2 · 2015-03-22T14:00:50+00:00

gentlemen = beta. you don't want to be a gentlemen it will only get you friend zoned.

Honestly if the first date doesn't end with cum on the cheek I never talk to the girl again. escalate by making out. It's not sexual so she can't pull the "it's too soon" card... if she doesn't want to make out with you then 99/100 chance she's not interested sexually. At that point you make up the most obvious lie ever to get her out of your house (or to leave early).

Never travel to the date in such a way that you're forced to awkwardly travel back with them somewhere after this scenario. It didn't stop me from ending it abruptly but it sure makes for an awkwaRd time later so plan ahead.

Title	Ending first date with kiss on the cheek?
Author	kroirfever
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	March 22, 2015 12:44 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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