Maybe because it's Spring Break. Seeing so many posts lately like "this girl stopped responding", "this girl flaked", "this girl was into me but now she's cold." First I'd like to say that your situation is not special. Your situation with a girl has happened before and will continue happening.

If the girl is into you, you wouldn't need to question her actions. The most likely reason she became cold is because you are just an ego boost to her for a week or however long you guys interacted. She never intended to see you long term. All girls do this and will continue doing this for the rest of humanity for all we know. I don't question it or try to figure out why a specific girl did this or that. Just accept that it will happen hundreds of times and plow through.

How to counteract this? By abundance and by leading an interesting life. Even if you met a girl who you think is into you, keep approaching more girls! You're getting positive and flirty responses from a girl or even 5 girls? Doesn't matter, keep approaching! I have had times where one week, I'd be setting up dates with 10 girls and then 8 would flake. Keep doing new things. I am 30 years old and have always wanted to learn to play the guitar since listening to Blink 182 as a preteen. I just finished my 3rd lesson with an instructor.

Girls don't owe you anything. You took a girl out to a dinner date at a fancy restaurant and later she stops responding to your texts? Or maybe you got a make out on your first date with her and then a week later, she says, "I don't see this working out."Why? Who gives a fuck. There's no reason to question her, let alone ask her why she feels that way. If she says it won't work out, nothing you say will change her mind. Move on, meet more girls, post more selfies with other girls on IG. If she reaches out to you again, then reevaluate the situation. Unless you've been on 5 dates with her and things are still progressing upwards with her, she is probably not that into you.

The most common mistake beginners do here is they tunnel vision on a girl who is responding well. Hence they get too emotionally invested. Before you send that text to her, before you dial her number, remember that she is still a possible flake. As long as you keep that mentality and keep meeting more girls, you'll subconsciously be more selective.

Even with all this said, continue to have fun and be fun in your own way. Do this while also knowing that she has to prove she is worthy of your time and she can flake at any time.