Approach Anxiously

Gravyness · 2015-03-29T23:16:35+00:00

Absolutely great advice!

A week ago I started seeing a cute girl by the bus stop at the start of the day and after 2 days I set out to speak with her, making that decision was effortless, but when I got side by side with her my heart pumped harder than ever. Imagine it being 6 in the morning and I was feeling like I had just jumped out of an airplane!

I ended up postponed to the next day and then the next, don't let your brain do that! He will always have the BEST excuses POSSIBLE! And it was no surprise he come up with an even better excuse the third time, but I said fuck it, if this keeps up I will never talk to this girl, my body got even more nervous, but I suppressed it inside and ignoring all the conscious resistance, said Hi, introduced myself and ended hitting well with her, now for the past 2 days I've been talking with her in our way to different schools, it's going great!

Embrace this adrenaline, this feeling is your body incapacitating you, wanting to keep in this relatively comfortable life you have, but right then, right there, this feeling is also telling you of an opportunity, an opportunity that you SEE in front of you. Don't let your thought process make you loose this chance, because sometimes you'll only have that one chance, that chance of IMPROVING, not just of getting laid. Show who's in control!

boobooth · 2015-03-29T21:54:46+00:00

Great advice. Happens to me 9 times out of 10. That one other time I just fuck up. Doesn't matter. Next one.

superandy241 · 2015-03-29T23:01:12+00:00

“Alas,” he said now realizing the error of his ways.

“Rejection is better than Regret”

“Remember,” said Pook. “Change is gradual. Before, you saw no opportunities. Now, you see them all about you, yet you are too hesitant to take them. You’re slowly becoming more aware.”

“What are you saying?”

“When you find yourself hesitant, always yield to Action. If you see her, do not wait, gawk or wait for a ‘perfect moment’. Action, action, action!”

“Pook, I cannot. You see... I am insecure. I don’t have that confidence!”

“You are confusing CAUSE and EFFECT. The CAUSE of your hesitant nature is not because of your insecurity. You have not gotten what you’ve wanted, what you’ve desired. THAT is the cause of your hesitant nature.”

Title	Approach Anxiously
Author	throwawaybitchs
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	March 29, 2015 9:48 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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