I want to touch on a topic that is often overlooked and ignored, although may be the most important topic of all when it comes to approaching and seducing women.

Last night I went to a party. I was dressed perfectly, my car was clean, I came with two stunning women, I bought a table at the club, had a few bottles, had some good friends at my table, and had some more beautiful women sitting with us and enjoying the night. As soon as I arrived, I was ushered past a 50 foot line, the velvet ropes opened, was greeting my the owner and escorted to our table. Our cocktail waitress took care of us, and we had the best table in the club.

I had everything going for me... except my energy was off.

I don't know what happened but as soon as I got to my table, my night was already over, I could feel it. I should have just paid my bill and went home, but I thought that if I had a few drinks I could get over this nagging feeling of just not being the best that I could be. I was complimented as being the best dressed of the night, girls were looking at me, my ex-gf was hitting on me, yet I could shake this feeling of simply having negative energy. As the night progressed it got worse. It was showing on my face, I was being less social, people were coming up to me asking me if I was okay or if something was wrong, I was staying away from the photographer, and worst of all.... I was scared to approach women.

I'm not saying that I take home a woman every night, but when I go out, I usually talk to a few girls and really connect with them. Once I get comfortable with them, it's over... they are putty in my hands.

But what happened last night was something that can occur to everyone. At the culmination of the night, I had approached 3 girls, none of which I had a conversation with for more than 1 minute. They knew I was off and they wanted nothing to do with me. WHAT THE FUCK. Furthermore, I complained to one of my best girlfriends about my being off and she literally brought a girl over to talk to me, and I CHICKENED OUT LIKE A LITTLE BITCH. The girl was literally handed to me on a silver platter and I couldn't even hold a 30 second conversation with her. It was devastatingly embarrassing. Where had my game gone? I am the king of this kind of stuff, but last night.... well I failed miserably.

I realized that no matter how good you look or what you have going for you in life, there will be days that you're energy or confidence is simply off. You need you to recognize this and use it as time to reflect on other things in your life. When you see that your energy and emotional confidence are not at peak levels, don't try to push through it, just call it a day and worry about tomorrow. I tried to drink it away or use other girlfriends to loosen me up, but it didn't work... Why did I stay at that party for 3 hours longer than I should have? It just lowered my value and pushed me into further negative territory.

So what I want to reiterate to all of you is that sometimes your energy is off. Recognize it and make adjustments to your plans. Don't let women see you at less than the best that you can be.