Background: Went out for a friends birthday last night. Pumped myself up before going out by dead-lifting and reading /r/seduction.

First bar: I was the first one to arrive so I warmed up by talking to two girls sitting next to me at the bar. Rest of the crew showed up eventually. I picked a seat next to a girl I've been interested for a while but haven't had success with (lets call her B). Focused on talking to everyone in the group and having a good time instead of just talking to B. B said she noticed I had a good vibe that night and bought me a drink. She also asked me to hang out the next day. Usually its me asking her to do something.

Second bar: Moved on to another bar with a dance floor. Pulled B over to me and started dancing with her. She was only semi-into it so I stopped after a bit. I think it was uncomfortable for her because of our mutual friends being around. A new girl shows up (friend of a friend, lets call her T) and shes pretty cute. I chat her up a bit since she doesn't know anyone. B notices this and decides to head home for the night, I kind of feel bad about this.

Nothing to do now but keep working on T. I lean in so my head is touching hers (kino!) and ask if she wants a drink. I take her hand and lead her to the bar (more kino!). We drink our drinks and head back to the group. I ask her if she wants to dance (asking probably wasn't necessary) and start dancing with her. Its playful grinding with some banter. I feel like she is into me and I want to try to kiss her, so I say "hey can I tell you something?" and kiss her when she leans in. It was kind of more cheesy and smooth, so I don't know if I'll use that one again.

Third Bar We go to our final bar. I am holding T's hand the whole time there. We get some drinks and head to the dance floor. I am pretty drunk at this point so we just go straight to dancing, only this time its more passionate with a lot of touching and making out. I tell her "we should go back to your place" and she says "you think so?". The bar closes and I plan to walk her back to her place to f-close. The group we are with wants to get food. At this point I should have excused me and T to go back to her place, but I asked T if she wanted food and she did. After food T kept saying she was tired and by the time I walked her back she just gave me a hug and left. This is a lesson learned for me: need to be more assertive about getting to a good location to f-close. I also forgot to get her number.

Post-game Analysis: This is my first field report after discovering /r/seduction. The advice here about having an alpha frame of mind really helped my game. Kino as soon as possible makes a huge difference.

Right now I am trying to decide if I should ask T on a date in the future, or just write it off as a one-night fling. Any advice?

Update: texted T and asked to get dinner this week, she said she was busy. I took this as a sign that she didn't want to pursue anything more than what happened that night and let it be.

Second update: apparently T has a boyfriend and didn't tell me.