Pretty mad at myself for this. Met a female coworker at a club for her roommates birthday. We've been flirty so I wanted to make a move.

First shit test: "we've been flirty lately and it's making (insert other female coworker here) uncomfortable"

Second shit test: "I don't think youre good for me. You go on too many dates and are too much of a player"

I didn't handle either of these well. I said something along the lines of "I guess we should just stay flirty friends then" (broke frame).

She ended up grinding on some other dude for the rest of the night so I left.

Lessons learned: don't tell girls you're interested in about your dating life. Always be on guard for shit tests and hold frame.