So today as I was walking to class with one of my guy friends and a girl, and as we were walking the girl said something to which I replied that she was just like her bf who is kind of a weird guy.(He's my friend but yes, he's very weird and she's just like him) she replied by just looking at me and sort of rolling her eyes at me. I'm proud of myself because I know that I've become less outcome dependent! As a guy whose recovering from being a nice guy if I said that a couple months ago when I wasn't on this subreddit and she did that I know I would've have felt bad all day about it and Now, I couldn't have cared less about her response. I just said what I said and didnt care about how she took it.(It wasn't meant to be an insult btw I was just jokingly saying she was perfect for her bf. Guess she didn't take it that way :p) Thanks reddit you guys have helped me learn to say what's on my mind and if it doesn't resignate well, then who cares. Move on because it's not worth my time!