Can't make conversation

everydaysurbirthday · 2015-04-26T11:58:00+00:00

My guess is that you're thinking too much, not too little. You're filtering out everything that goes through your head as 'not good enough to talk about' so you're left with nothing.

My advice: read up on 'being in the moment'.

sirz345 · 2015-04-26T06:15:36+00:00

Watch inspirational videos on YouTube. I'm not kidding you, on days when I wake up hating the world and wishing to not interact or talk to anyone, one of those five to ten minute videos changes my entire thinking process and my attitude. Not to mention my inspiration and my new outlook on people.

5000miles2boston · 2015-04-26T06:26:34+00:00

Just keep doing it. Talk and keep talking even if what you're saying is rambling. Eventually it'll get better. Also talk to people that you aren't attracted to. Chat up everyone you see. Waiting in line, then talk to someone, anyone.

kekspernikai · 2015-04-26T16:14:16+00:00

You just have to learn a couple of key things. 1 is appreciating silence. It's not your enemy, it's your friend. 2 is exploring a conversation. You have to learn how to pick up on avenues when people speak.

Girl: "I love to travel."

Guy 1: "I travel too, one time I went to...." blah blah blah, girl loses interest

Guy 2: "When? Where?" Girl follows up with country, conversation peters out

Guy 3: "Yeah, traveling is thrilling - do you rough it and camp out in hostels, or are you a fancy cruise ship type of girl?" conversation gets interesting

Title	Can't make conversation
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	April 26, 2015 6:13 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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