Hello all, I have been coming here for about a month now, learning and researching as much as i possibly can about seduction and relationships in general. I am 21, and right now my confidence, although not as high as i want it to be, is 100% better than what it was during high school. However i owe this to the massive blow i was dealt yesterday. I have very strong feelings for a coworker (recently single 2ish~ weeks) and yesterday she pretty much ignored me in 3 instances that just about shattered all of the confidence i had. I have never felt such pain in my heart before. And at the end of the day i came to realize that i was partially glad that happened because i was able to grow from it. I may have strong feelings for her but i cannot allow her or anyone to shatter my confidence because that is what is a big part in defining who i am, in my opinion. This also led to to a realization of something i really do not know how to go about, I have never been in a relationship before, thus i am really trying to do right by this girl to show her my qualities and also grow myself as a person. But i realized how am i supposed to interact correctly with her when i have never been in a relationship, and i am not one to go out and look for a quick lay or chase after someone just because they are pretty. I do not really have interest in attracting as many woman as possible, i want to focus on the ones that interest me and spark something inside. And that is exactly what this girl did to me, i knew there was something special about her from the moment i met her. (I suppose that sounds pretty stupid, but that is how i feel about it). What does not help me either is that i am really trying to think positive and build a much better/confident me, but i cannot help but think i am not good enough to receive her feelings. The negative and doubtful feelings are consistently coming into my thoughts. I suppose this ended up turning into a rant so i appreciate anyone who read this. I don't have anyone else but you guys to talk to. (again stupid i know but that is how it is right now). Any guidance or advice someone could give me would be greatly appreciated, thank you all. - Morning