Hi seddit!

This is a longer one. I'd really appreciate it if you read it and gave some serious advice.

This weekend I was on a travel trip by bus There were lots of young people on the travel bus and we all went partying in the evening. On Saturday we all went to a club and I really started to get into one girl. And she also seemed to get into me. We talked really intensely, started dancing, touching etc. until we kissed. We kept doing this the whole night, dancing, having fun, making out. It was awesome. Unfortunately she didn't want to go further than making out (when I started touching her ass or moved towards her boobs, she took my hands away).

At this opportunity I also want to thank seddit. By reading all the great advice on here, I could handle the situation the right way. I started touching her and escalated more and more. I always was the one leading, I was the one in control. I moved her from the dance floor to the bar, outside and back to the dance floor. I initiated the kisses - and I stopped them. I danced with her, spun her around and really enjoyed it. And she seemed to love it. She always wanted to touch me, held my hand, came close to me etc. In the end we looked like a couple, holding hands and kissing. Some friends also made some remarks about this.

By the end of the night, she was staying with me all the time and really enjoyed it. But as I said, she didnt want to proceed further so I brought her to her room. Before kissing her good night, I asked for her number, which she immediately gave me. Kissing good night ended in heavy making out again.

The next morning (Sunday), the group continued travelling. On the bus and at the travel locations, we didn't really have contact. We quickly greeted each other but after that there was no contact, conversation, touching or even kissing. I thought that this was very strange after a night of dancing, kissing and having great fun. But to be serious, I also didnt really initiate more contact.

In the evening (Sunday) the group went out again to a bar. I was drinking with some friends of the group and she was sitting at another table drinking with other people of the group. There still was not much contact between us, besides some glances. But I also never went over to talk to her, I enjoyed my time with my friends.

Later on in the evening, the bar started to play music and some people started dancing. The vibe was really good so I went dancing and quickly after, she came too (she asked me why I never came over, so she was missing me). At first we were dancing in a group but soon I started dancing with her alone. And she was allover me again. She started touching me and soon we were making out again. She couldn't keep her hands off me. We continued dancing and making out but the bar closed soon so we walked back. On the way back we had some real good conversation and lots of fun. But she still didnt want to go further so we kissed good night. She was really into kissing and making out and didnt really want to stop. But I finally ended the kiss (me leading) and said good night.

The next morning (today monday) was similar to the last morning (Sunday). There wasnt very much contact. We hugged, greeted and had quick small talk. But nothing more. No holding hands, no kissing, no touching. She spent more time with her friends which I did then too. I didnt want to be clinging or something so I let the day pass like this. The trip ended this evening and we hugged and said goodbye. We also kind of agreed to see us soon.

At the moment I'm really unsure where I stand with this girl. In the evening she always liked me very much and was really into me. During the day, not really. I'm confused about the meaning of all this. Was this just some party fun or could this proceed to something more serious?

As much as your advice helped me to get this far with this girl, I need further advice from you:

  • What did I do right, what wrong up to this point?
  • How should I proceed from here on? (I think I will ask her out on a date)
  • What kind of date would you recommend?

TL;DR: Met a girl on a travel trip by bus. Danced and made out with her a lot one night. Next day not much contact. Next night, dancing and lots of making out again. Next day few contact again. What should I do now?

Edit: Quick update. We met by chance at university today. When she saw me, she immediately came to me. Quick small talk, some touching but we both had to get going. Later on she texted me (she initiated).