I just asked a girl out for the first time...

mrspicytits · 2015-05-25T14:38:06+00:00

i always has this attitute that i just go up to any girl that i like and talk to her, works > good, didnt work > find another

but i dont know why i always seem to be getting too deep, i cant let go as well as i imagine, i was into a gril that has a boyfriend too, and i cant pull the plug....

fosterbuster · 2015-05-25T14:38:09+00:00

Good for you.

And remember that it doesn't really matter whether or not shes seeing someone - If she isn't interested, there isn't much to do about it - And she just saved you a lot of time and effort.

On another note - When you see someone and think to yourself that you should go talk to them.. Do it immediately. Don't give your brain time to come up with excuses not to and get nervous about it (at some point you'll hopefully learn that there is absolutely nothing to be nervous about). And if you linger for too long, it will seem off to both yourself and her.

mrspicytits · 2015-05-25T14:39:54+00:00

I did the same rookie mistake you did last year and I learned the hard way just you did. Never message a girl across facebook, you can't (won't) get a yes from a girl who you never talked to, never flirted to and never even kino'd with.

Title	I just asked a girl out for the first time...
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Comments	10
Date	May 25, 2015 1:46 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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