Failed to approach a girl

Yeurruey · 2015-05-30T18:33:42+00:00

What answer are you expecting?

ResistingTemptation · 2015-05-30T20:13:34+00:00

Just smile and say hi. Say how you notices she passes by and ask whether she's local. This is completely non-threatening (if she is a neighbour, this sort of conversation is expected and won't make things awkward). Smiling is important though, you don't want to come across like a creep / stalker haha.

If you go for the direct approach and she rejects you, you're going to have to keep seeing her and that'll make things awkward so I wouldn't do that.

Assuming you're good at conversing and she's interested you will have a nice conversation. If you don't get her number that time (although you should if things are going well), don't worry, you'll probably see her around anyway, so you can continue building rapport and comfort next time she comes around. And next time she might be the one to initiate.

eatporkchopsdaily · 2015-05-30T23:39:55+00:00

There are two ways you could go about this.

Approach her, spark up a conversation. Possibly get rejected.
Or don't approach at all, and put yourself down for doing so.

You gotta get over that feeling bro. Just talk to her, and don't be one of those guys who wondered what could have been. Being rejected feels better then not approaching at all.

ArenaDream · 2015-05-30T19:47:48+00:00

I had a similar story, however it was a waitress instead of someone walking outside. I ate at the restaurant two to three times a week for almost 1 and a half year. I recently started talking to her and she had similar hobbies such as korean variety shows and korean drama. However i fucked up by asking her on a date, the second day i started talking to her. She rejected me probably because i did not get to know her better. Do not be like me and rush things, i learned from my mistake. I still eat at the restaurant and im trying my best to fix it up.

Title	Failed to approach a girl
Author	bottlecap123
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	May 30, 2015 6:22 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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