Hello people, this is pretty much my first time in the pick up game. In fact, I've never got to experience much of a girl's company due to "approach anxiety" and such.
I spent all weekend building my confidence up and getting my personal style into shape. Once I came to r/seduction I was pretty much obsessively reading through the guides and other successes others here on this sub have. Thank you all! You've really helped me!
Funnily enough, I started to look into daygame even tho I have never even done Nightgame before due to being a bit too loud for me (I'm autistic and sensitive to too much noise)
Soo on Monday morning, I woke up and for the first time in my life I took over 30 minutes to get ready and I finally confidently dressed up like a man. I've always looked like a slob due to my lack of fashion sense (and I'm about 115 kgs but I know that isn't the problem)
To summarise I talked to 2 girls, one rejected and one that I think was a hit but who knows if I'll ever see her again...
It was a long train trip, telling my friend about what I was doing and he was kinda encouraging me that I can do it. I told him I'll part ways so I can see if I could find someone. Turns out, I went through 3 carriages back and forth not being able to find anyone worth it and/or making a fool of myself. Worst mistake ever. Not doing that again but I guess I'm only new to this...
Once I got to TAFE (Australia's "college") I met up with a few friends in class and told them what I'm doing. They were all approving and I can see they were happy for me.
At break, I met with the first girl, she was pretty, my type at least. I went out on a limb after being a little nervous and after manning up, here's how the conversation went:
Me: hello! How are you?
Girl 1: hi smiles
Me: What are you studying?
Girl 1: says what she studies
Me: oh that sounds fun! I'm doing visual arts
Girl 1: nice!
Me: I- I thought I'd say hello cause you caught my eye...
Girl 1 says sorry as her phone rings and walks away.
Probably a rejection but I'm still proud of myself for manning up and saying hi at least, may have seemed a little awkward when I said the last thing.
After a long day of class, I walked out and saw Girl 2 in the cafeteria, she wasn't drop dead gorgeous but still cute and has a nice fashion sense.
Me: hello!
Girl 2: hi smiles
Me: how are you?
Girl 2: it's so cold!
Me: I agree totally, first time I wore a scarf for the occasion
Girl 2: yeah :)
Me: what do you study?
Girl 2: study I failed a couple times already haha
Me: that's ok! I'm enjoying mine and I'm working hard but sometimes I can see that it can get hard.
Pause
Me: I thought I'd say hi after I saw you before. We should meet up sometime again. :)
Girl 2: yeah ok, my name is ___
Me: I'm Joey, shakes hands
Girl 2: I gotta go in about 5 minutes
Me: ok bye!
I felt although it was successful, there wasn't enough going on but it's a good first step!
Also, she told me when she's at TAFE but my day off is Monday next week due to public holiday. The week after I kinda have a chance but let's just say who knows when I see her again... She also said she has a son so who knows if she is married!
So, thoughts? Critique and how to improve? Again this is my first time doing the game :P
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