Is it creepy or acceptable to caress a girl's neck (most importantly the back of it) to build attraction? Context: nightlife, clubs, parties.

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-06-15T19:36:49+00:00

Hahaha reading your askwomen post and arguing with the mod. I thought that was my thing ;) people reading that extrapolate that you cant take no for an answer and dont understand social norms (especially with the arguing)

Thats what they think of when they think of serial killers, and guys they dont know how to tell to go away

Ive only seen this done once and the dude was a creep, yes it can be super creepy

Buttt. ... cant argue with results. Presumably you are not an idiot and can read the cues. I would do it a bit later, after more comfort has been established and then i would say like....i could rub your neck....if you want.... like make it clear you can back off if you have to

AttractandSeduce · 2015-06-15T20:11:16+00:00

Hey Krainz,

Good job with girl number 1 and 3.

Now caressing a girl's neck is better used once you know that a girl is very comfortable around you. It creates some sexual tension which can take you out of the no sex zone or friend zone.

Ideally you want to get a girl comfortable with you from the beginning with your touch. You don't want to just come out of nowhere and start touching her neck.

During the night it's more natural to touch girls. During the day it's more of a challenge. Find innocent excuses to touch her hands, arms, shoulders, lower and upper back, eventually her neck, her face, her legs, thighs and eventually her more intimate areas. (Well if you want to touch her more intimate areas.

So your good technique is best used once you know the girl is already comfortable with your touch and your in the comfort/rapport phase. Your technique is good to build sexual tension.

If it's used strictly during the attraction phase you can end up creeping some girls out.

puaCurveBall · 2015-06-15T17:48:50+00:00

Sure. It's also acceptable to start making out with her, or fingering her in the club. It all comes down to what she consents to and enjoys.

If she likes it, it's great. If it is unwanted, it might be seen as creepy. You gotta calibrate to her responses because there is no true / false answer to this.

Title	Is it creepy or acceptable to caress a girl's neck (most importantly the back of it) to build attraction? Context: nightlife, clubs, parties.
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Date	June 15, 2015 5:47 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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