So I started tindering a month or two ago, and now I've finally manned up to move on from just the texting to actually meeting the girl. The reason for this is probably that the girl is pretty straight forward and more or less hinted that she was bored and wanted company. I couldn't meet her tonight though, so she suggested that I should come up to her apartment tomorrow night for a cup of coffee.

Since I'm completely inexperienced in the dating scene (have been with one girl and she approached me in a club) I'm not entirely sure of the unspoken things.

1) Coffee could potentially just be her way of saying she wants sex, right?

2) I haven't met her before, how should I greet her when we meet? with a hug perhaps to establish kino right away?

3) How fast should I escalate kino now that she invited me to her apartment as a first date? Same goes for how soon should I try for a kiss?

4) Since I definitely wants something out of this, do I go for a deep kiss on the first go, or should I just go in for a brief one to kinda develop it a bit more graduate?

Once we start kissing I'm pretty comfortable on what to do, it's more just the way to the kiss I'm a bit uneasy on.

Btw, I'm sorry for any spelling/gramma errors - english isn't my first language