An Average Guy’s Guide to Texting

c00kiecutter · 2015-07-24T16:45:29+00:00

Here is a common occurrence: you get a woman’s number, you text back and forth, you go on the first date, then you text her and never hear back. You text again and still no response.

Looks like your dates aren't going well.

On the topic of texting: I have no time to come up with funny and playful texts every 24 hours. Even worse, she will have to make the effort to come up with funny responses everytime. If she doesn't already really like me, she won't do it. And if she really likes me, why would I bother texting so much, we can just set up a date or something.

There's much more wrong with this idea. We had this post about giving her the gift of missing you a few weeks back. And what does it say about you if you're putting so much effort into her and are more or less always available to text?

Maybe if you really like texting and you always meet girls who are really into texting. But generally this is a bad idea.

(If you're in a relationship with someone, feel free to text as much as you want. But this article seems to be about the first few weeks after meeting each other.)

Moonbearcow · 2015-07-24T10:33:44+00:00

Great read, thanks for sharing dude! I especially love the comparison of texting to chips in a meal. It definitely helps to give perspective on how important texting is, but at the same time it doesn't necessarily have to be perfect. Like a great burger (date) with bland chips is not ideal, but you can still enjoy your lunch because the burger was delicious, whereas a boring, awkward to eat burger with a side of great tasting chips isn't always enough to bring the customer (date) back to the cafe (you) again.

Title	An Average Guy’s Guide to Texting
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Date	July 23, 2015 10:49 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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