I'm bisexual but generally more attracted to girls than guys (maybe 80/20). In addition I have had sex with girls but not guys (yet).

For most of my life I just passed as straight, since that was fairly convenient. However in the last year I've started to notice that my lack of openness about being attracted to guys has caused some anxiety, so I told most of my friends. (I have several fairly serious "secret" things in my life that not many people know about, and I'm in the process of trying to rid myself of the repressed emotions this causes.)

This summer, I'm in a new city with a new crowd of people, so I've experimented with being more open in general with my sexuality. I've had mixed results so far. Many girls seem very receptive to the idea, and I'm convinced one even wouldn't have slept with me if I hadn't told her. Whether this effect is something about the novelty factor or just the demonstration of vulnerability, I don't know. However, with guys I've had a fair share of awkward experiences. My friends seem to show some sense of uneasiness whenever I for example comment on the attractiveness of a guy I see. In addition both my male and female friends sometimes appear to treat me as more of a 'beta' than they did before.

I'm trying to cultivate this 'alpha bisexual' image (like I WILL FUCK ANYONE MUAHAHA) but I'm not sure how to do it or if it's possible. Part of the problem is that unlike with gay or straight males, there is really no role model in society or my social experiences to rely on. Also my confidence about the whole matter isn't quite up to snuff yet. Does anyone else have experience with this issue? Is it possible to have mad game for both guys and girls and be open about it?