So not too long ago, my friend got me into day-gaming because he knew of my struggle with women. At first, the going was a bit rough- I was too concerned with how people saw me and I was soaked with approach anxiety. Now is an entirely different story. I'm becoming more and more comfortable with myself and approach anxiety is no longer the big obstacle it once was. I'm getting better each and every time I go gaming. BUT, there is still a grey-area that I'm still kind of struggling with- Texting and following up.

This past weekend I got a pair of prospects that I really want to follow up with. One lives 7 hours south of me, while the other lives a couple hours east of me. They are both beautiful but you and I both know that I will only choose one. Who I choose does not matter. What DOES matter is how I follow up. To give you guys a visual I'll detail both of these interactions below.

1. Thursday, I was gaming at a towncenter and I was walking towards the urban outfitters. A pretty blonde was walking my way so I decided to open. She was cool with me and we talked for about 5 minutes. She was from Miami and was in my city as day trip with her family to buy a villa. Even though we live hours away from each other, she was still cool with hanging with me when she was back in town. She gave me her number and I texted her my number hours later once I got back to my house.

I am going to ring her up tomorrow and try and set up a date for later this month.

2. Me and few buddies drove to Orlando this past Saturday to game at the mall there as well as the Downtown Disney. That mall was packed with women so we went to work. I had a lot of interactions and I got one number (I pick quality over volume when it comes to getting numbers). This girl was gorgeous and to be frank, I did not think she would go for a black guy like me but as it turned out, she was kind of into me. She lived kind of far from home (but not that far), but she was down for hanging out sometime. I texted her about 4 hours later to give her my number.

Can anyone tell me how to go about following up over the phone? I mean, I've been told that texting is for logistics purposes only and calling is the best way to go, but there's so many areas where I feel like I can fuck it up. I want to follow up, but I don't want to come across as needy or pushy.