There is really only one way to get good with girls, or anything for that matter. That is to go out, TAKE ACTION, and not give a fuck about what anyone else thinks. All the gold on this sub will do nothing for us unless we go out and put these ideas into PRACTICE. I just recently got my hands on RSD's Jeffy's book: Nine Ball (I suggest you read it, it's wildly entertaining, motivational, and fucked). What I really admire about Jeffy is his careless attitude towards his social interactions, and his desire to take action. As soon as he reads something that he feels will help him with his game, he goes out and implements this new technique; then he reflects upon his results and writes up a field report. The takeaway is that the only way to progress is to act upon what you learn, and don't give a fuck if you fail. If you don't take a risk, then you'll never succeed. Learn from your mistakes, reflect upon them, and keep moving forward.