You Have To Try Hard. You Must Not Give A S#$T

MartMillz · 2015-08-09T14:54:18+00:00

This article is fantastic. Wow.

In pickup it’s hard to fake your percieved image. Women are perceptive and can pick up on your vibrations. Literally, they can see you shake. Your body language and vocal tonality betray your insecurity.

This is the truest thing. I'm currently preoccupied with startup business ventures and I am usually personally worried, and insecure about not really having a traditional, steady income. Like, it's a real thing I have to be concerned about it. So my anxiety about it comes out when people ask me what I do.

I blame nature of course, but it's so damn sad that women seem to be biologically repulsed by that particular insecurity and attracted to:

In a DHV story, you imbed your value into the story

I HATE bragging but... them's the breaks of nature again I suppose.

it’s hard to pull off without seeming contrived and phony.

I don't even like to risk this for that reason, you're really edging on the line of try-hard (because you actually are trying slightly, it's unavoidable) and if you get exposed it's one of those things that are nearly impossible to recover from. Especially in a group setting, God forbid. I suggest slight embellishment on things you can tangibly back up.

Self amusement + unreactiveness + Clarity of intent = A partial equation for looking like you don’t give a shit.

This is beautiful and genius but it's the most esoteric shit ever to actually put into practice. I also don't even know if it's possible to do it on a sustained basis. Especially in a forever sense if you actually get into a relationship with the girl. I don't even want to make like I understand it fully but I think I've had glimpses.

One of the fundamental principles of seduction is learning how to not give a shit what people think about you. Easier said than done.

I haven't reached my goals yet but I hope to find happiness if and when I get there. You ever see old, rich guys on the golf course? They don't give a flying fuck. They're done, they don't have to explain themselves to anyone anymore, they don't have to impress anyone, they're impervious to judgment no one dares to judge them in the first place because other people are the one's competing for their approval. Of course, some of them are also complete dicks, but that's besides the point. Your goals don't even have to be monetary.

Fix yourself. Figure out what you want in life and make an effort to get it. Once you're really in the process, you're perfect. You will be self satisfied by your efforts and won't worry about being judged.

Title	You Have To Try Hard. You Must Not Give A S#$T
Author	TonyDAbsolute
Upvotes	26
Comments	1
Date	August 9, 2015 12:17 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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