Went on date, heavy on kino, she reciprocated, now regrets. Need help

disired · 2015-08-09T22:07:14+00:00

She may just be looking for something casual for the time being. From the information she is interested you should continue this relationship but if it does not pan out be ready to jump ship.

newatthis1599 · 2015-08-10T21:11:13+00:00

Say something along the lines of: Relationship? We are just getting to know each other, hold your horses.

Leave it at that, suggest something fun after a few days(few, needs your input) and ask her out for something fun.

This time, do the same as last but in the end, if the IOI's are there go for a kiss(not on the side of the head, thats BF/relationship stuff). If she rejects this time or you don't escalate, eject and freeze.

mollybloom1612 · 2015-08-10T05:52:39+00:00

Sorry to say, she's just not that into you and is letting you down in a thoughtful way. It happens. You never know a person's situation so please don't take it hard. This applies if you don't know each other well to start with, like if you met on a dating ap.

noiwontdance · 2015-08-10T22:53:30+00:00

From my vast experience women, you should just go outright and tell her you love her. She may feel uneasy about a relationship but that could be because of a biological factor in the female brain that comes about when thinking about barring children. She wants someone that she knows will be there to protect her, by telling her you love her, she gains that assurance.

If you have any more questions PM me.

Title	Went on date, heavy on kino, she reciprocated, now regrets. Need help
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Upvotes	3
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Date	August 9, 2015 8:48 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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