Gf starts hanging out with orbitor co work.

Meglomaniac · 2014-04-02T04:33:15+00:00

anytime she goes to hang out with her orbiter, go and hang out with another chick.

Turbosuperfastlaser1 · 2014-04-02T08:16:58+00:00

Once he starts to like her, she's gonna go to him for validation or what she calls "bouncing ideas to see if she's crazy, " and he's gonna use it to make you look bad and soon after she's gonna sleep with him. Or he'll just be her alibi when she bangs other dudes.

RPstudent · 2014-04-02T16:39:33+00:00

dread game is a tool to show your LTR that you have other options. So develop more options. Hang out with female freinds. Go to places (bars, clubs, whatever) with her and your mutual friends and flirt with the women there.

One caution. Don't be quick to assume he's just an orbiter. Women effectively see men in one of three ways:

Who is that again?
He gets me things and I don't have to do anything for him
I'd so fuck him

If she's isolating herself with him, he's either 2 or 3. And if he's cocky and funny and has some solid social proof he could easily be 3.

But here's the thing. Even if he's a guy she'd fuck, I don't think he's a threat. Women are inherently hypergamous. If you want a LTR, you have to face the reality that she'll suck and fuck the most alpha cock she can get her lips around.

You can game your bitch and make sure you're the most alpha cock she's gonna find, or you can mate guard, which reveals your own weakness in that you have to hold tightly something you can only keep by being strong. . If you're spitting tight game, maintaining your value and demonstrating you know you have options and your willingness to use them if she steps out, no other man is a threat.

Don't mate guard. It's failing the shit test.

mikelovesvegas · 2014-04-02T22:40:10+00:00

If this "orbitor" is actually the boss' son, then she's already banging him and has been for at least 3 months.

Next her.

Title	Gf starts hanging out with orbitor co work.
Author	afcpoop
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	April 2, 2014 4:27 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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