I've been reading/listening to things related to seduction and having a problem with what I see to be a discrepancy. I can see that social skills are at the heart of seduction, but it seems like people who lack basic social skills are the ones who are trying to learn seduction. To me, being witty is hard to do consistently (based off the reactions I get from other people, I think my jokes are brilliant) and is not something a bunch of social-skill lacking people will be able to do to practice core concepts of seduction like shit tests and just making her laugh.

So my question is, do I have to be witty? Can I just talk and banter with this girl about questions or things that I think would be interesting? How do you take care of shit tests without being quick witted?

I hope what I said made sense. I'm a little bit high and trying to make some of my highdeas into words. Thanks guys!