Friends GF said she isn't sure anymore he is the one. What his best move?

[deleted] · 2014-04-05T11:58:20+00:00

Introduce him to new women.

Zebleblic · 2014-04-05T10:42:24+00:00

He's probably fucked. Its not something that just happened. He lost her a year or two ago, not last week.

strangestdude · 2014-04-05T10:50:56+00:00

If she believes in 'the one' then there is probably fuck all he can do to try to salvage the relationship.

Probably best he leave her to chase a fairytale.

twelvedayslate · 2014-04-05T11:02:58+00:00

You don't have to do anything. Just be there to support your friend in whatever choices he makes.

[deleted] · 2014-04-05T11:46:28+00:00

Be his friend. When the shit hits the fan, which it will, make sure you're a bro. Don't let him always think about her, he has to understand that it's a new chance to meet more women.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-04-05T17:52:32+00:00

It all depends on what his reaction to her statement that she's not sure he's the one anymore. If he wants to continue to have her as an exclusive gf, then he'll have to take TRP. If you're new to TRP, this might be a good opportunity for the two of you to study and discuss together. I recommend reading therationalmale.com . Scroll down to the very bottom and start from the beginning. If you can, read the comments as well. There is a wealth of experience in there. Some of the things the comments say may sound not credible to the uninitiated. Believe me, they are most likely true. (I'm a lazy, introverted, not-going-out-tonight, bald 53 yo, rated a 6 to a 7 on those picture rating sites, and in the past 10 years I've banged 6 girls aged 18-22, all hard 8s or better, one - the hottest - has an IQ over 160, is now an MD, married w/kid, and still wants to swing w/ me. Hubby says it's ok. I don't. Not to mention a couple of dance instructors, strippers, etc.) My point is that there is a vast knowledge of game in the comments, so trust what they say.

If you need to persuade your friend, start with some evo-psych stuff like David Buss or Martie Haselton. I also recommend very highly 'Sperm Wars', by Robin Baker. When you read the research and science, you will see examples of it all the time in your day-to-day life. All. The. Fucking. Time. You will see shit (fitness) tests. You will see hypergamy in supposedly 'good, faithful' women, in 'Christian' women, in women with 'great' husbands/bfs. You will observe beta orbiters. You will experiment with and exercise your own alpha, and you will be astounded at the results from making some very small changes.

I disagree with those here that say, 'Fuck it. Let her go.' If your friend has not taken TRP yet, it is quite possible that he can improve himself enough to change her hamster, er, uh.. mind. And after all, aren't we all about improving ourselves here? Giving up is a pussy move. Especially w/o trying everything reasonable. That being said, moving out is not the same as giving up. In fact, it might, MIGHT be a good move. I am a hu-u-u-u-u-u-uge fan of dread game, but it's can be screwed up, so read up on it first. Frame is of the essence in everything we do, especially here.

Tl;dr - Read therationalmale.com and Sperm Wars religiously and discuss w/ friend. Go from there. Dread game and jealousy/pre-selection WORK.

Title	Friends GF said she isn't sure anymore he is the one. What his best move?
Author	beginner_
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	April 5, 2014 10:28 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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