Cope with "rejection"

syloco · 2015-08-25T15:45:53+00:00

If she knows you are available to her then why would she make an effort? She probs thinks that she has you on a plate if/when she wants you so you need to show her it is not that simple. Indifference is one of the most powerful forces in attraction - if you are indifferent then you hold the power. Right now she is indifferent to you and you can't stop thinking about why and how to get around it. Fuck that - flip it.

First off do not seem affected by her actions - whether that be her being indifferent to you or flirting with you. Secondly - get busy. Make it known that you have options, not explicitly of course but imply scarcity. Maybe next time you are due to be at the martial arts club at the same time her have someone to meet afterwards (preferably a female) and so make out you need to rush out when you are done with the class/workout. If she asks where you are going just say to meet someone. Don't specify who or where - give just enough info to plant a seed. Make her wonder why you are no longer fawning over her as you were previously. And if she apologises for not getting back to your text just brush it off like its nothing. Be unreactive and indifferent.

Now when it comes to dealing with rejection. Reframe everything. For example i see it this way: you are having an awesome party that everyone wants to be a part of. you invite someone to that party. if that person says they cant make it then you most definitely aren't gonna call that party off, nor are you gonna let it affect your or anyone else's time at that party. they lost out. not you. Whether this be house-party or a party in your pants is irrelevant. Booyah.

penguin_says_slide · 2015-08-25T16:10:27+00:00

I feel you man. I've left this gorgeous girl back home and will meet her soon. I'm not marrying her or anything, but we have a good connection. Travelling at the moment and from time to time I find myself thinking of her. Bear in mind the entire time I'm gaming and intend to do so even when I return.

Omg, I love Ludmilla so fucking much. Fuck these other girls, she's the one for me. Can't wait to go back and kiss those sweet lips. meanwhile staring at her picture like I'm in love and shit, shedding a tear and so on(okay the last part isn't true)

You know when I think those thoughts? When I'm coping, instead of thriving. When I decided to skip a day at the gym, or pass on daygaming bcs I was tired, when I buy a sugary lemonade instead of just fucking water. Whenever I'm off my path.

So just go out and approach, meditate, exercise, eat good, get busy with work...whatever and in no time you'll go Ludmilla who? HAHAHAHA can't believe I was being such a pussy.

Rayjaysdick · 2015-08-25T20:28:32+00:00

She's the one bro. Cuff that shit. For real.

Title	Cope with "rejection"
Author	nuxxi
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	August 25, 2015 1:08 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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