Ok before we begin:

I'm a Chinese guy in my early twenties from Singapore - a predominantly English speaking Asian country with a small Caucasian expat community. Now, I'm tall, work out and truly believe I'm at least an 8. I also speak English fluently without the Singaporean slang and have no issues with conversation whatsoever. The problem, I really have this thing for Caucasian girls. Also, although I have had dates in the past, strict parenting and poor life choices has left me inexperienced in sexual encounters, so escalation is not a strong suit of mine.

With that out of the way, let me recount. I have entered my queries within "[ ]" and it'll be awesome to get some insight on them!

There was a night festival in town yesterday, and after hearing about it all month long, I decided to impulsively attend it with the goal of approaching as many girls as possible and getting their numbers by applying some of the tricks I learnt here.

So I did. One trick I used was going up to a girl and showing her a message on my phone "Hi, I'm not allowed to speak tonight and my friend has dared me to pick up a hot girl and get her number. So from one hot person to another, help a brother out?"

Now this usually got a laugh from them, and I felt it was useful for approaching girls surrounded by friends as it allowed me to isolate them from outside influence. I asked three girls and I got the numbers from two models.

I was however rejected by one really attractive Eurasian chick who just laughed and said "Sorry I don't give out my number, but good luck though!" To which mock pouted and left with a smile.

[Should I have pressed harder? Broke character and tried using words? What would I have said? Also what are your thoughts on tracking a girl at a party to 'accidentally' encounter her again?]

At the event, there were many attractive models who were stationed at photo walls or beer spots and were easily approachable. I managed to build enough rapport with one of these models to exchange Instagram info with her but did not get a number (she said she needed to think about it). I had earlier asked when her shift ended so I was wondering:

[Should I busy myself and wait for it to end even if it meant it was late and meet her then? If so, what sort of activities could I do that late to build rapport?]

This also brings me back to a time when I got the number of a really pretty waitress at a bar but did not have much time to build any sort of rapport as she was working. And I remembered regretting not waiting for her shift to end to speak to her again.

The reason I bring up rapport is because often times I have encountered a situation where I had no problems getting the numbers of girls because I feel I'm naturally confident and comfortable around females but if I had scored the number through simple pickup I felt i didn't give a lasting impression to warrant a response to my text the next day. This was true for all the girls I got the numbers from last night.

Just to be clear, the numbers are real. I can check.

[How would you tackle the issue of having her number but with minimal rapport at hand? What sort of things do you say?" Any one liners?]

All in all, although the night ended with me not meeting any potential romantic partners I did make a new circle of Caucasian girls-friends, which I take is a step in the right direction. And also, the seddit tips did help quite a bit!

[Also do you think race/age is a barrier? Or just upbringing? Should I find sexual experience (eg. escort) to know what to expect and want or let it come naturally?]