Hey there,

I am pretty experienced in terms of seduction/pua knowledge. Not to brag or anything - just giving you some background: I have had sex, probably more times than average Joe will ever see boobs. I even wrote few FR's/guides for seddit on my throwaway account.

Anyway, I've always been pretty... I don't know how to call it because english isn't my first language, but I always just grab the occasion and take what I want, I don't wait for it. Having said that, girls don't come to me begging me to fuck them - as soon as I feel they want to fuck me, I just do that. But. There is always a but.

Few months ago I was dating this one girl who had a lot of shit on her mind. I knew that, but I wanted relationship with her and I started to pressure her in admitting something to me and/or having sex with me. I know, not very nice of me, but hey, everyone makes mistakes. So we ended the relationship. On not so good terms. I was mad at her, because we had a connection (she admitted that) and she was mad at me because I would rather end things with her than be her friend. But somehow we came to mutual agreement and we started to talk - on a very casual basis - one conversation per month, perhaps. Few minutes ago, she said that if things were different, she would've been with me. What she meant was that if I didn't pressure so much, I would be with her, because she wasn't ready at that time, but she wanted me. Maybe I played that whole thing wrong, I don't know, it was few months ago and I had other girls since then, but still - it makes me wonder... how do I not pressure girls? I have this feeling that I always want too much too soon, but I learnt that it works for most of the girls to just go and get them, not wait for any signs or miracles, just take what I want. But with this girl it was different.

So, what I want to ask you - how to overcome this? How to get rid of this mindset of me always "taking girl"? I would love girls to come to me and beg me for company, but I am very impatient and I prefer to be the guy who always speaks first rather than wait for girl to say something. Any ideas? Advices?