So, Wednesday was my birthday. I chose to go out Saturday night. Unfortunately, I didnt really have any set plans. Some of my friends were going out, but they didn't have anything concrete. So, I ended up going solo. Started out going to a shot bar. Saw a girl I knew from the past. Should've said something. Chickened out. Took two shots. Turned back, and she and her group were leaving. Almost wanted to feel crushed. Instead, I started to stretch and loosen up. I'm a dancer. And I knew I'd be going to a dancing club. So, I had to get in that mindset. I walked to that dance club. On the way there walked past some girls sitting on the sidewalk. I said "Hi", and all 3 said "hiiiiiii" back. This will come into play later on.

Went inside the dance club. Met my ex-roommate, and greeted him. Talked and chilled. Saw this dude I know who also knows how to freestyle dance. He's with a guy and 3 women. So I converse with him a bit, head to the floor, and start tearing stuff up. I teach the non dancing guy how to pop, and kind of talk to thee 3 women he was with. The awkward part was that I noticed 2 girls I previously matched from Tinder. One, just didn't work out, no hard feelings with her. The other, she previously threw a fit when I wanted to see a full body pic and called me all sorts of names like judgmental, pushy, entitled, etc. I felt like I should've said something jokingly, but chose not to.

So this is where the FR really begins. Earlier, I was talking with a woman on badoo. I don't know what it was, but my text game was better than normal. She wanted to meet up. She got to the meet spot a tad early, as I was still in the club. I ordered a drink. I thought about scarfing it, but I was more like "meh, I wont take forever, but I'm in no rush". I finished it. Noticed I missed her call. Told her I was coming out. She seemed relieved to meet me. I found her pretty attractive. Nice body, nice skin tone and texture, about 2 inches taller than me. Apparently, she had some friends with her, and they came out to "check me out". They go to an all girls school, so I guess they had to get a good look at me, just in case I tried anything ignorant. I was calm, and started pulling jokes out of my ass, building rapport with them all (4 girls total). They all complimented my style, died laughing at my jokes, even laughed and my subtle insults (on of them tried to look at my ID card hanging down my leg. I acted like she was trying to look at "my print". For some odd reason, they liked that). So basically, I'm in with the friends. I ended up taking the one I was supposed to meet elsewhere (isolation), and we just walked and talked around the city. And man, I used kino like a MF. First it was just a hug. Then when we crossed the street Id touch the small of her back. She said something about being a couple, so I played along and told her to grab my hand. Had some shoulder touching. When we sat down next to each other, occasionally I'd touch her thigh. A UV light would've showed my pawprints all on her basically, lol.

I think the most alpha thing I've done in a very long moment was around 1am. We were walking and talking. I'm still using push and pull (more on the push side though lol). She's not upset, but acting annoyed. Eventually she tells me "go away, youre annoying"..or something like that. I ask her one time "do you really want me to go away". She said "yes". At that split moment, I remembered the saying "sometimes, in order to get the girl, you have to risk losing her". So.......I left lol. Thats right, just speend up and kind of left her behind. She was somewhat following me, but then took a left when I took a right. Know what I did afterwards? I saw that group of girls from earlier who said hi and started talking to them. That hi earlier made it really easier to open them up. Almost like I planted a seed. The rapport didnt go so well. I need to work on building comfort quickly. But oh well. Some of my friends finally made it to a bar, so i caught up with them. And guess who texts my phone about 20min later, my "date" lol. Now she's mad. She couldnt believe I actually walked away. Shes throwing fits, but im showing no emotional response. I just tell her to "come back out". She asks why. Instead of pouring out my feelings on why i want to see her, I ask "You didnt want to leave did you. You want to see me tonight, dont you". She replies "ok. im coming". Go me lol.

We meet back up. Shes in a sour mood. I can't lie, im a tad annoyed, because I hate BS tests, but, I keep my cool. I try and get her to sit and talk to me about what happened (my inner AFC trying to come back out), but she keeps trying to avoid me. Eventually I say "alright, if you want to play this game, we can do that"(my inner alpha trying to grow). She crosses the street. I stay back and call up one of my friends so I can meet them........she ends up sitting down on the other side of the street waiting for me to talk. Lol, she knows not to pull that now. I tell her straight up (while loking dead in her eyes) "Look, I like hanging with you, but Im not a fan of games like this. If you want to see me, let me know and I'll be there. If you dont, then I'm out. But im not a fan of these games/tests. Im simple as that". She says "ok", and magically, her sour attitude clears up. Shes smiling. I ask do you know of where we can get food. She says "its up to you". I say "good", hold her by the waist, and we go tell my friends goodbye and search for food. (part 2 coming after I get some studying done. I basically get her to go against many things she said she wasn't going to do earlier)