So, I have been seeing three girls recently.

Two are your standard plates. They're pretty hot. One may be lost already though I think I'm just not all that into her anyway. The other is pretty eager and has been texting for booty calls a fair amount lately.

The third girl is the requester. We were talking this morning and she asked if I was still seeing anyone. I said yes and she started talking about us going exclusive just for the next six months.

To put it into perspective, she's going off to university in September which is pretty far off. She already knows I have no intention of continuing after that point, can't be bothered with a long distance thing, but she's welcome to come back weekends or during breaks for a good ravaging and an extensive library of black metal.

But she asked me this morning if I would consider being exclusive at least until she goes away.

I guess if I was truly RP, I'd just next her now and have done with it. That is if she wasn't very dangerously close to being a unicorn. She insists on paying her fair share on dates (despite limited student budget), she doesn't seem so entitled that she wants me to do shit for her, she shares my number one passion (metal music), understands I need alone man-time and is just a genuine sweetheart. And knows an unearthly amount about Swedish black metal (my kinda girl). She even insisted on cooking me dinner yesterday and brought stuff with her to do it.

Put it short, if this university in September thing wasn't in the frame, I'd probably have a severe amount of oneitis right now. Though after reading TRP a lot, I believe I've maintained frame so far. I still have this whole idea that I only just escaped a terrible LTR where I was as blue as they come and that I've only really known her 2-3 weeks now.

When she asked, I agreed after drawing it out a little. First I asked why, let her explain, I basically let her have to convince me without being too much of a dick about it. In the back of my mind, I'd already kinda agreed anyway. I just felt like I needed to make her work for it a little in order to maintain frame.

So, basically, did I do the right thing there? I've not texted the other girls yet, but feel like I'm pretty much done with them.

Was this a shit test? Or is it a totally fair request?

I don't intend to change my overall attitude in terms of ensuring she knows she's lucky to be with me and the fact that my lifestyle comes first. I also don't intend to concede many more requests, but I just like the girl. She's fresh and genuine.

I guess I'm looking to maintain a balance. Still be her alpha, but not to the point that if she is the unicorn I think she is, I don't want to fuck her up to the point where she goes through the all men are shit thing and just cock carousels until she hits the wall.

Does that make sense? Or wat?