I seem to be struggling in the dating world right now. I'm 35, the most attractive I've been in my life in physique, clothing, lifestyle, and confidence. I prefer a dating experience where I get to know a woman both emotionally and sexually within the first few dates.

But it appears those who are open to that style are younger women who I'm not attracting well for some reason. I'm thinking my age.

The women who do want to go out with me are in the 28 - 40 age range and say they want a friendship first and want to go much much slower.

I quickly lose interest in them bc there's no sexual tension since I'm respecting their boundaries and being friendly.

Not sure how to problem solve this and could use some input. Thanks.