For the past 2 years I've been working hard on my game and started to achieve pretty good results both at day game and night game. I moved from Eastern Europe to San Francisco (code code code). Shortly after I started gaming, mostly because I didn't have any social circle and I desperately wanted to fuck. Well, this item can be crossed out from my wish list.

I left behind all my close friends at home, most of them are from my high school, college years...

I never deeply connect with the girls I date, mostly because I don't want to, but also because I'm insecure about my social circle. So it's just endless circle of short term dating.

At the same time I never made close friends with anybody here in San Francisco. I have quite a few acquaintances, but I can't just pick up a phone and go like "dude let's hang tonight!" and hear back "for sure, let's rave!". There are some pickup friends, but all they want to do is go out and game. Most of them just can't game solo, which I don't have a problem to do, this makes me feel like I'm a tool they use to pick up girls. No fun. There are some colleagues, which after 3 reminders finally find time to get drinks after work. I never get invited to parties shedding a tear on the keyboard...

I should also add that I've always been quite introverted. I'd spend Friday and Saturday nights poking computers while my peers were out socializing. So there is no news for me that I now miss on friends. But I want to fix this, I want to game my social circle, become great friend and have great friends. What should I do to build my social circle at 28 years?