I'm a 31 years old and am recently dis-engaged. That is, I was suppose to be married this summer, but broke off the engagement in the spring. It still hurts a little, but I am learning to make peace with our mutual decision a little more every day. But I digress, so here's my situation: I'm not really interested in emotionally connecting with anyone right now, but it has been a while since I've been physical with a woman. The drive is starting to get the better of me, so I've asked out a couple women and got a yes. My ideal goal is what I guess you'd call a friends-with-benefits situation. So when trying to bed them, do I be upfront about my life and my intentions, or keep it to myself? Also, I think my dating skills may be weak, as I've been in a committed relationship for the last three years. Will definitely be reading as much material from this group as possible.Thanks