Sorry for my english, not my 1st language :P

Hey people, I feel like I needed to share this to everyone. Today I learned something important, something really important that alot of people tend to forget, and that is accepting yourself, who you are and what you do.. Sometimes, because I've seen it in my friends and in myself, when we start entering into the world of seduction, we tend to read so much about everything, inner game, techniques, tips, guides, pretty much everything that we can. We start to know more about girls, and become more social, live new experiences and of course, hook up with those girls who were "out of our league". But sometimes we tend to take a wrong direction into things, we have the correct attitude but we focus on the wrong things. Sometimes you forget who you really are and start changing into something you aren't, you stop doing the things you used to do, you start doing things you are not used to. Now I am not saying change is bad, heck, go ahead, start living new things! but what I mean is totally forgetting who you are and start becoming what you read, what you see and what they tell you..

I don't know if I am explaining myself so I'll just share what happened to me today.. (I'll make it as short as possible without leaving any important details)

I've always been that guy who didn't care about seduction since I was never really looking for that, but when I started growing up I wanted to give it a try because I realized I had way too much female friends but never caused any attraction to them. Time goes by, I read, practice, read, practice everyday. I was feeling better everyday (atleast that was what I was thinking). But then all of a sudden I started realizing how much things changed, from my clothes to my friends to my things and so on but sometimes I felt empty, like something was missing. And it was because I only wanted this lifestyle so that I could feel "good". But then you realize it's not about feeling good but about wanting to know yourself and become better. I lost a girl who I was deeply in love with, and because I was so into this lifestyle, I never realized she loved me back. She got in a relationship with an ordinary guy, weird tastes but he was proud of them. I saw that. Couldn't believe it.. She told me I changed, I was always chasing girls and being a player, she said that from her perspective. I forgot who I was.. And the worst thing is that she liked me because when I was starting into this whole seduction lifestyle, I still had a sense of who I really was before getting deeper. (doing kino, being flirty, pretty much all the seductive things I learned but with a touch of "me") She liked me not only because I knew how to flirt, but because I did it while at the same time being proud of myself. (you know what I mean??)

Sometimes we get into the whole seduction lifestyle just because we want acceptance, or we just want to hook up and that's it, but for what reason? I'm not saying it's bad no no no it's amazing, but remember why you want to start working on yourself, if it is for you then good, stop reading this and keep on going, but if it is for acceptance from others or you want to feel "good" because people like you, it could be bad.. Once you obtain that thing you wanted, you really are not satisifed, because it's not about pursuing something to make you happy, it's about being happy with yourself..

I don't even know what I am saying at this point, all I want you to know guys is to accept who you are, don't be ashamed to be different than others and show that proudly. (oh and you know, girls like that.)

If you are going to change, make sure it is for you and not for others.

Thanks for listening to my 2 am thoughts :)

Oh and if you're wondering, I met her about 1 month after I got into the world of seduction, I was still myself at that time. It was about 2 years ago from today.