I (24M) am currently spending a semester abroad in the U.S. I found that U.S. girls are super inmature when it comes to dating and sex. Meeting and dating U.S. girls is a completely new adventure for me, but it is not always a positive one.

I want to tell you a recent episode, which culminated yesterday. I slept with a girl 10 days ago and we both enjoyed it a lot. She even invited me to stay with her in North Carolina during Thanksgiving. A couple of days after her sleepover at my place I texted her and wanted to meet up with her. At first she wanted to meet me but eventually flaked (saying that she is tired). So yesterday my buddies were at a club were they coincidentally met her. She told them numerous times that she was missing me and asked where I was. So I decided to go to the bar and meet her (she did not know that my friends told me that she wanted to see me). I met her at the club and tried to strike up a conversation with her. But she ignored me completely and talked to one of her friends. She even apologized saying that she needs to talk with her friend and thus implied that I should leave. Because I am not needy and quite advanced in game I backed off after a couple of minutes, went to another room and met another girl whom I almost picked up (I was already leaving with her but her friends stopped us at the exit lol).

After returning home I decided to delete the girl who acted so strangely that night from my facebook as I was done with her having experienced such rude behavior. A couple of moments later she texted me asking what I was up to and if I wanted to come over to her place. I refused and told her that if she wants to see me she should come to my place (it was 3:30AM). She didn't come as it was too "cold" for her which basically means she flaked.

My plan is to remain radiosilent until she texts again and play it cool. I do want to see her again but it is hard for to put up with such antics. Most Amercan college girls in general seem to be very flakey, inmature and a bit dumb.

How would you guys proceed in that situation? Why are American girls so much more inmature compared with their European counterparts? Thanks for your advice!